How I Got To Hollywood and How you Can Too — Gil Darnell

Close up facial shot of the actor Gil Darnell, with a beard, looking pensive slightly away from the camera
Gil Darnell

Gil Darnell began acting with roles in Brookside, Hollyoaks, and Holby City before moving to Los Angeles. He credits the Ketel One ad campaign for transforming his career as he went on to star in other TV ads, including the Super Bowl ad of 2011 for Audi. His feature films include a cheeky role in Redirected alongside Vinnie Jones, and The Ghost Who Walks. You may have seen him on TV in the period drama Reign, the drama series Bones, or playing Hitler in Supernatural. One of life’s good guys, Gil has taken the time to share his story with us and offer some valuable advice to his fellow actors.

I was mesmerised

I had never considered being an actor, and had my heart set on representing Australia at the Olympics in field hockey and winning our first gold medal. We’d been the #1 team for 15 years, but hard luck stories had always dogged our Olympic dream. 

So I left home at 18 and headed to Perth, Western Australia to achieve that goal. At 23 I was still progressing towards the goal when my girlfriend and I took a trip to Europe, stopping off in London. She loved musicals and was dying to see The Phantom of The Opera, for which it was impossible to buy a ticket. However, we could queue up for returns on the day, so we got to the theatre to be first in line at 12pm. 

Now, by the time the show started at 8pm I was exhausted, and settled down for a nap in Row E of the glorious Her Majesty’s Theatre while my girlfriend enjoyed the show. My nap never happened as I was mesmerised.

Gil stands in profile, in a dimly lit setting, wearing a black jacket and holding a mic stand

The set was beautiful, and when the actor sang that opening night, I literally looked around the theatre trying to figure out how he was lip syncing so beautifully to the CD that was playing. 

Then I realised… he’s singing live! And it sounds amazing! Like me, everyone else in the theatre was mesmerised. As I wondered at his brilliance I thought to myself, “What can I do? I can run. That’s pretty much it. This guy can act, sing and dance and affect all these people so deeply”.

After the show I walked across Waterloo Bridge in a daze and — I kid you not — a bright light shone down on me from above halfway across that bridge!

Fate had proved fatal to my sporting career; I wasn’t going to be a hockey player, I was going to be an actor.

Now, take a moment to process what I said there.  

I never said “I wanted to be an actor” or I would “try to be actor”.

This was my one absolute and solitary purpose in life. I was to give everything to one clearly defined purpose. I was going to be an actor.  Whatever it took. By any means necessary.  

I was going to leave nothing out on the field (my sporting training was priceless for developing that attitude, even if it was no longer required for anything else).

I was going to be an actor, whatever it took

So with zero experience whatsoever, I applied to the best musical theatre school in the world, Mountview Theatre School, and miraculously got accepted!

Gil is dressed in period costume with a long black fur cloak, outside in a forest, reading on an ipad he holds at arms length.

Fast track to a few years later and I’m working in a bar pushing tequila shots while I pursue my dream. My friends and family wondered why I wasn’t using my athletic know-how to earn my keep, but the truth was I knew I had to avoid that temptation. I still loved the arena of physical fitness, I still kept fit but I knew if I dipped my toe back in then there was every chance that it would suck me back in and distract me from my goal.

I repeat — and there were definitely days when I had to repeat it to myself often —

I was going to be an actor. 

When I went to Mountview, I was surrounded by some seriously talented people (all more talented than me) who had been singing, acting and dancing since childhood. My classmates were mostly 18-20 years old. I was 28!

BUT… I had the experience of life on my side and was able to put EVERY hour I had previously dedicated to my sport into my newfound career. 

As the years went by, I watched the majority of my graduating year give up and fall away. I’d say about 99% of them are in other professions now. Safe ones, ones with a regular pay cheque and regular hours — which is honourable and decent, but I can’t stress enough that if you really want to be an actor you can’t do that.  

No fallback. Ever.

You see, the trick to succeeding as an actor, I feel, is having the ability to keep pursuing excellence, no matter the cost!

Wentworth Miller of Prison Break fame once famously replied when an interviewer called him a success:

“I’m not successful. I’ve had 6 jobs from over 180 auditions”.

Gil appears in profile on a bright sunny day, he is wearing combat clothing for a role and has make up applied to look like a head wound

Christopher Reeve, of Superman fame, used to get so tired of the constant rejection that he would keep a log of his success. He numbered a notepad 1-100, and after every audition he would tick off the corresponding number. He decided not to give himself a hard time unless he got to 100 auditions without a job. This is Christopher Reeve, one of our film greats — and also a wonderful theatre actor! I decided to do the same, and I place a tiny piece of round paper from my hole puncher on my 1-100 list after every audition. My worst run to date is 36 auditions — be it commercial, film, TV or theatre — without a job. I suggest you do the same. It will give you peace of mind.

So I’ll happily share my own experiences in case they’re of any use to you.

In all cases you have to think of this as your job — and that means that you should be spending at least 8 hours a day working on your craft.

Gil’s top tips for aspiring actors

Gil flies through the air in an action shot, leaping off something out of shot with a rocky backdrop

Learn how to sing.

Learn how to dance.

Learn a martial art.

Learn an obscure skill, for example trapeze, or flame throwing….

A bearded Gil sits in period costume, with unfolded parchment open in his hands

Learn one new language a year.

Learn one new accent a year.

Read, read and read! Read 1,000 pages a month. (I’d read one classic novel, one play, one screenplay, one biography or autobiography a month).

Gil lies on his back, topless in bed, looking up at a woman whose legs are silhouetted at the front of the image

Keep super fit.

Find a way to sustain yourself so that acting is something you do because you love it, not something you NEED to do to survive. That’s too hard and too much pressure to put on yourself. It may take 3 years. It may take 15 years but you can do it.

Gil and a dog stand next to a pickup truck carrying sheep, in a bright sunny field

Surround yourself with positive people. Keep negative people out of your life, be it friends or family.

Keep up to date with all the plays and TV shows.

Go and see a play/ballet/opera one a month.

Gil, in a black and gold brocade jacket, is surrounded by a group of people and looks up with the spotlight on him (possibly an awards cermeony)

Just improve every year!

Find a mentor. Nowadays with Facebook and Twitter you’ll be surprised how often those at the top want to help those aspiring to succeed. I wrote to my idol on Facebook in 2008 and now we’re close friends.

Gil, dressed in long black fur cloak, is flanked by 3 men in medieval armour costumes - all are smiling at the camera in a posed shot

Keep a record of all your auditions and meetings. As an athlete I used to keep a sporting log with my daily resting heart rate, how a training session went, etc. Create a log like that, but for ALL of your interviews and auditions. Write down who you met, what interests they have, details of the project — even what you wore. Don’t forget to record the names of any assistants in the office: if you commit their names to memory, it will help you one day, as they may become the top casting director in town and will remember if you were a kind person back when they were also climbing the ladder.

And MOST importantly:


A candid photo of Gil on a bright sunny day, holding a small puppy and smiling to the camera in front of the Hollywood sign